We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. Of course the purpose of being happy as well as having fun is to let him notice. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. They'd compliment my fashion sense, my work ethic, and tell me I'm the most interesting person they've ever met. While Scorpio men are well known for being guarded and secretive, don't confuse those traits with dishonesty. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. If you're unclear about what ghosting means, it's when someone you've been seeing disappears from your life, completely and suddenly. He doesn't deserve it. He basically begged for a second chance. Hopefully you've been having a fine old time lately. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! Make sure he sees that. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. He has difficulty maintaining relationships, and eventually, ghosting is the only recourse he can think of to keep the space needed for himself. Get ready to be asked about your whereabouts and what you're doing at the moment. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. I felt like it was out of nowhere. I never seen this side of him. How can u fall in Love with somebody else when u still be living with her. It's about you feeling small and crushed, cowering in a corner surrounded by your guilt. but still i'm trying to go with flow with him. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): 1. A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. They want you to pour out your heart and you literally have to pry things out of them. I am NOT going to contact him. Hi all, i need an advice please about my scorpio man, we were fine for almost 2 months and then i had a strange feeling he was dating someone else. But do I have hope? I have always wanted True Love with a Woman. Be strong and dont let him control you. Should I give him his space to think? I mean we have made so many plans. A scorpio man will be faithful only if he is happy. Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. Betrayal can consume me as much as love can. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. I could never settle for less than the best so I guess I will be on my own with just great memories of him. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. These men are secretive, alluring, mysterious, stubborn, and very intelligent. A Scorpio man is done with you when his behaviors begin to change. What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You? They have to so that they don't feel guilty about retaliating. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. When you are with a friend, get ready to be bombarded with a lot of questions. What is this man saying? When alone, he may choose to focus his energy on something that builds up his self-esteem. 6) Why do you care? Hi. Also with some women I have a great attraction but is not always about sex, but companionship, frienship. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. And if you told a certain girl that you like her very much or that she's special, does it mean your'e developing feelings for her already? I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. Because they know their emotions are so much stronger than others', they tolerate more than most people. And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. His eyes have been locking in on you. They need lots of love , attention & affection . I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. Luv this hub. They don't talk about feelings which leaves us to wonder what they think and where their at and if they are gone for good. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. It doesn't mean that he isn't into you or doesn't care. Just checked my words . Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. I tried to talk to him and I told him that I was asleepI thought he would have realized that I've never ever ignored himhe knows I would never do that. Top 5 tips on how to get a Scorpio woman back: Be honest, direct and precise, don't waste her time. Rated all ups!! But that is okay with me because it gives me time to be alone and a chance to actually miss him. Mostly because they're afrai Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. From what it looks like if you bother a Scorpio and show them you care they get upset. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. What should I do ? I am not giving up on Him, not giving up on us. He usually texts me every day but a few days ago he disappeared when he said he was frustrated . He doesn't seem like the type that could be motivated by the lover's thoughts and feelings. Have a life. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. do I just go along with however he's feeling? He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. We had plans for a few months ahead too. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. I lost my mind. He could have met you while he was looking for someone to have fun with, but you turned out to be the wrong person for him. The Highs. The Bug told me he is playing Music at some Bar so he invited me to come visit. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. At this point, it's not about you understanding what he is angry or hurt about. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. We sporadically texted over the next week or so, but I gave up because I noticed I was the only one initiating conversation, and after he ignored a snapchat I sent him, that was the last straw. Sometimes he gets his hopes up too high and disappoints himself. I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. 10. He does not show me his emotions , just during our fights says i care about you , i think about you , do not leave me & etc . But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. usually he will reply with yes, love. You can just imagine how much time that saves. If he's pointing fingers for every problem that crops up in your relationship, he's trying to put the responsibility on you so he doesn't have to take accountability himself. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. Mine came back after 5 years. A Pisces is always a thunderstorm of emotions and they can be quite self-destructive when they're angry. It felt so perfect..like I just stumbled upon a soulmate. He is soon joined by a group that matches their steps and energy with Hafeez. I waited a day to respond, and just said "hi." Mind you, it will not be a vacation by the sea. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. I'm going through the same crap. The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. Travel. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. Love yourself, have your own projects and passions in life and trust in God. He has slowly grown colder and further away. Although Scorpio men are quick to pull the plug, he will start to pull away emotionally before this time. It seems his actions of disappearing whenever and to wherever have caused your self esteem to diminish. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. But things are slowy getting boring for me. will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. This goes on for a while until you take the unfortunate hint. Most of time we have different opinion. He keeps an eye on you in a caring and protective way Have you noticed your Scorpio man secretly glancing over at you or his glances drifting across the office looking for you? i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. Conversations with him will feel like the world doesn't exist for him at all. Finish that house project you've been putting off, take yourself on a museum date, or enjoy a nice long walk. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. He has broken up with me last week . They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). The obvious man to lead it was Le Grange, the only South African who had ever set foot on the South Pole. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. Take a look into his full natal chart to gain a more accurate understanding. For your number 5 reason he withdraws and decides to leave, I don't think its for lack of compassion. They Detest Dishonesty Your Scorpion partner vehemently detests lies. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. I'm dealing with a Scorpio who says he loves me after 2 weeks of knowing him and has literally poured out his heart to me to only stop telling me these things weeks later. But now you're older and so confident in his loyalty that you constantly yank on his tail to show your friends how much he loves you. But actually, they are great observers. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. Wish we will be together soon. I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. so yeah.. is he playing. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. I live in Wisconsin. HELP!!!! We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. This is both a blessing and a curse. Or a few months. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. Imagine you have a dog. Strong, handsome, great personality, warm, kind, friendly, funny, etc. They will want to think things over before making a decision. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. i know i;m not his priority. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. but sometimes he shuts me out of his life for at least 3 or 4 days. Anyway, we just been talking and starring at each other off and on. I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 years and a half. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. He can be so intense with his feelings; but he does have moments when he is withdrawn, and it makes me feel like he is not interested. 1. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. He will be jealous in silence. Understanding him 2. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. 5 He enjoys private, romantic dates. He's confused. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. Scorpio intuits the sensitivity behind the facade and becomes intrigued. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. I don't think he respects me. Everysince i felt hurt and texted him about how i felt and its been 4 days now he has not replied. Then he blocked me! He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. Also do you think he will come back? There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. Keep this in mind so that you don't take his behavior personally. Have I lost him for good? However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. That was a month ago. Being with my Scorpio is like riding a roller coaster.everything feels picture perfect up until. i have fallen deeply in love with this man who has now, after 3 and a half months (yes I know it is a short time) not introduced me to anyone, never invited me over to his house, starting being busy over weekends with family issues only pops over 1 night in the week for the last 3 weeks. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. When I was about to dump him he playa mind games - twist the whole thing, I mean I want to dump you and you acting stupid. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening. 5 Key Takeaways 1. He texted the next day a long paragraph why I demonstrate no communication by not texting back and that he wasn't mad at me that day etc Then I gave him a long paragraph explanation reply. I always have a second thought about our relationship. Should i stay or should i go. So one of the things I said was 'it's not normal to not be able to communicate like a normal person at his age' and 'i felt disrespected and if i feel that way that probably means he is not for me, so he needs to carefully think if he really wants to be with me'. Hi, I'm a Leo who was dating a Scorpio for 3 and half months. Thats when it all came back to me he did the same thing when we dated the first time but not as adults we have not dated. Oh no, this vacation will be somewhere in the mountains where there'll be many hiking trails and places to rest in nature. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. I can't say anything to him. 1. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. Hi , i am a sagittarian girl . Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. He's quite private though. Good luck all you gals out there. That's yet another "secret" he'll keep from you. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. When it's clear that your Scorpio man has gone from one hundred to zero, shift your focus. Hasn't replies to a single email. We could stare into eachothers eyes and read each other maybe too well. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. He will not tell me what is wrong. Trust issue or what i dont know. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. 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